On the first Saturday of every month, Elizabeth Esther hosts a retrospective in which bloggers can link up their favorite/most popular/best post of the previous month. This month, I’m featuring a letter I wrote to my husband Scott as part of a new (almost) weekly series called “Marriage Letters.” The comments and emails from “How…

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Mary remembered the fever of their early years, frantic kissing, ravenous embraces fire ready to blaze at his look, touch, whisper She loved Josh then Or did she? They hadn’t yet faced the broken-down car the ridiculously-expensive vacuum cleaner salesman the lay-off the devastating family news the endless debts the midnight confessions ripping, burning, scarring…

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Our three days of semi-blissful (it’s hard to maintain bliss when you’re sore and tired and you struggle to get your baby to nurse) new-parenthood shattered into pieces on February 29, 2000. A home-care nurse unwrapped her portable baby scale, laid our naked girl on it, and frowned. “What was her birth weight?” she asked…

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Elli Renee Bennett February 26, 2000 ~ October 19, 2008 I heard this song for the first time yesterday. Even though it’s about a man and a woman, I thought of Elli and cried. When I watched the video last night, I cried again, especially at the end.

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