Scott and I are copying fellow blogging couple extraordinaire, Amber and Seth Haines, in meme they started last week, letters to your spouse. You can read Scott’s letter here. This week we decided to write on “secret fantasies… for the future.” Don’t miss Seth and Amber’s letters this week. We wrote our letters independently, only exchanging…

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(RSS and email readers click over to hear the song) it’s been a little hopeless around here i’m too tired to weave words we await news a verdict on his broken heart my stomach drops with every email chime every phone call but we may wait months i am afraid grieving exhausted dark clouds loom…

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While it’s common knowledge how tough it is to be a pastor’s kid, no-one talks about how tough it is to be a pastor’s wife. No-one told me that pastor’s wives are handed masks when they walk in the door. My husband used to be a “bivocational elder” — he helped lead our church in…

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For about a year I’ve been looking for every-day gifts, the little (and not-so-little) things that with familiarity I take for granted and stop seeing. Ann Voskamp hosts a link-up every Monday for those who are doing the same. She has challenged readers to see the gifts in what she calls “the hard graces” –…

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It’s the first Saturday of the month, which means it’s time to look back at the previous month and highlight our favorite. During the second half of December, I highlighted “best of” posts from the first 9 months of 2011, so I’m picking one of the post from early in the month, “How To Deal…

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I waddled across the gritty downtown street, simultaneously pushing my daughter’s wheelchair and leaning on it for support for my aching back and baby-heavy belly. My husband carried her backpack and held our son’s hand. We cut across a parking lot, angling towards our van, parked in one of the few handicapped spaces available downtown.…

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